The fixers of the Zodiac are some of the best people to be in relationships with. Why wouldn’t you want to be with someone who is willing to improve aspects of their lives?
The fixer’s perseverance, patience, and unwavering commitment is going to also benefit their love lives long-term. It’s like they approach their partnerships with a growth mindset.
Not sure if you are a fixer or if you’re with one? These astrological signs are prone to being relationship “spacklers”…
1) Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
If there’s one sign that’s synonymous with dedication, it’s Taurus. Tauruses are known for their steadfastness and loyalty. In fact, s, they are usually in relationships for the long haul.
As an Earth sign, the Taurus individual will bring a practical, grounded perspective to their relationships. They can be annoyingly practical though. s, they’ll stick it out if the relationship they’re in is of value.
That means, don’t you try to play mind games with the Taurus sign. It wouldn’t be fair if you’re not in it for the long game because you’ll be making them jump through hoops for no reason.
Because they believe in stability and are not the type to give up when things get rocky, a Taurus will always try to find a pragmatic solution to the problems at hand.
But remember, stubborn as they are, they won’t stick around in a situation where they feel their loyalty is not reciprocated. What you can never do to a Taurus: Continuous betrayal or lack of trust.
2) Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Emotional and intuitive Cancer is ruled by the Moon, the celestial body associated with emotions and maternal instincts.
Cancers will go to great lengths to nurture their relationships. Think of them as someone who will treat your love like a plant. They’ll water it to grow.
And since they’re all about s, when things get tough, they won’t hesitate to dive deep into the emotional depths to understand what’s gone wrong.
That love might not be forever, so be careful. If a Cancer feels continuously emotionally neglected or unappreciated, they will retreat into their shell permanently.
3) Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Libras—ruled by Venus—adore harmony, peace, and relationships.
They are diplomatic and will strive to maintain balance and understanding in a relationship.
Lucky you, Libra partners. These excellent communicators will use their skills to talk things through if their relationship feels off kilter.
My Libra friends have been the most level-headed people in relationships. You want to model your approach to your love life to theirs—for real!
For the Libra partner, don’t proceed like you don’t have to do any of the work in your love. If the relationship becomes too one-sided or if the conflict is constant, the usually peace-loving Libra may decide it’s time to move on.
4) Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpios are known for their intensity and depth. These qualities make them super exciting to be in relationships with, while also making for some challenges.
When the Scorpio commits, they commit fully. This will feel like heaven.
Scorpios are not scared of the dark. They will s to get to the heart of the problem.
They’ll bring their emotional honesty to the forefront and will work to rebuild the relationship’s foundation.
When things get rocky though, the Scorpio will end things. Especially if a Scorpio’s trust is broken beyond repair, they will have no problem parting ways, even if it hurts them.
5) Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
You’ll love the Capricorn for being the marathon runners of the zodiac. You can s being with a Capricorn.
They aim to be in long-term relationships.
Known for their discipline, they apply this to their love lives too, willing to put in the time and work needed to maintain them.
Keep in mind, they might seek practical solutions and patiently chip away at issues. So if you’re not down for the work, do everyone a favor and step away early.
If the Capricorn’s heart and efforts are not being met or appreciated, they will decide to call it quits.
A few years ago, I watched my Capricorn friend be super into her man one minute. Then, the next minute, I witnessed her throw her engagement ring on the ground in a public street when she felt like she was putting more into the relationship than he was.
They managed to patch things up, but you get the deal.
Laser-focused on their goals, they bring that same tenacity to their relationships—whether it’s with you or without you.
Remember, these signs are not the only ones capable of fixing relationships. All signs can be “fixers” in their own ways, K?
Everyone has the potential to be committed, understanding, and willing to work through the tough stuff. So, just because your partner’s sign is not on this list, doesn’t mean he or she is trash.
We are more than just our signs, thankfully. Our personal experiences, values, and other astrological aspects also play a huge role in shaping us.
So, no matter what signs you or partner are, if you’re willing to put in the work, understand, and grow, you can be a relationship fixer too.
How to know if your partner does not want to fix your relationship
If you do end up in a situation where you are the fixer, let’s hope your partner is following suit.
If you’re not sure where their intentions lie, here are surefire ways to know they’re not up to par regardless of their sign:
- Lack of communication: Do they avoid discussing your problems? Do they brush off your attempts to discuss your concerns?
- Defensive and dismissive: If you find yourself arguing with them on fixing your issues or they just pretend there are no problems, you may need to assess your situation on your own.
- Avoidance: Similarly, if your partner avoids important conversations, take note. You might even find your partner consistently canceling plans or not making any effort to see you. All are bad signs.
- Lack of effort: They no longer make an effort to resolve issues or s. Have you noticed a drop in their commitment and effort towards the relationship?
- Constant criticism or blame: They criticize you more than usual or blame you for all the problems in the relationship. This could be their way of pushing you away.
- Emotional withdrawal: An emotionally distant partner will show less affection or emotion towards you. You’ll notice this is happening when their conversations start to feel superficial or lack depth.
- Changes in behavior: Not an obvious sign, if your partner just seems different, you may want to explore further. If their behavior towards you changes dramatically or if they act out of character, time to assess.
Remember, these are potential signs, but they aren’t definitive proof. The best way to know is to have an open, honest conversation with your partner about your concerns. You can do it! We believe in you. You’re a fixer after all!
