21 signs an Aquarius man is not over you (and wants you back)

Is your Aquarius ex giving you mixed signals?

At times it seems like he wants to get back together but at other times, he’s really hard to read.

I know how frustrating it can be to have feelings for someone and not know if they feel the same way – it makes it impossible to move on.

Even though it’s not always easy to figure out how an Aquarius man feels and what he wants, there are actually some telltale signs that he’s not over you and wants you back.

Let’s take a look:

1) He wants to stay friends

The first sign that your Aquarius man is not over you is that he’s really adamant about staying friends.

Of course, this doesn’t necessarily have to mean that he wants to get back together, but it’s a very strong indication of how important you are to him. Clearly he still has feelings for you and needs you in his life.

And if you check off some other signs from this article, then I think it’s pretty obvious that he wants more than just friendship.

2) He frequently initiates contact

You can divide couples that have broken up into three groups: Those that cut off all contact; those that stay in touch for really important stuff; and finally, those that remain friends.

  • The first group of people becomes so upset over a breakup that they want nothing more to do with their ex. They will delete their ex’s number and block them on social media. If they see them in public, they’ll pretend not to know them.
  • The second group – and I think this is most people – will want to make a fresh start when they break up with someone. Even if the breakup was amicable, they won’t want to keep seeing each other or texting back and forth. They’ll only get in touch to share important news etc.
  • The third group includes your ex. These are the people that want to remain friends with their exes and who keep initiating contact.

He’ll call you to check in from time to time. He’ll like your social media posts and he’ll keep sending you friendly jokes. If this sounds like your ex, I’d say it’s a sure sign that he hasn’t moved on.

3) He makes excuses to spend time with you

When you agreed to remain friends, did you expect to see so much of your ex?

I didn’t think so.

I mean, he’s showing up at places where he knows you like to hang out.

He keeps asking to borrow books or cooking utensils (since when does he cook?).

He may even start hanging out with some of your friends.

It’s plain to see that your Aquarius ex keeps making excuses to spend time with you. This is another sign that he wants you back and is trying to get close to you again.

4) He keeps bringing up the “good old days”

This is a classic move to win you back.

When you meet up with your ex for drinks or you run into each other somewhere, you’ll start by catching up, and then the conversation will slowly start to drift toward the “good old days”.

For example, he’ll remind you of a romantic trip you took to Italy. He’ll say, “Remember that little bed and breakfast? And the owner who didn’t speak a word of English and how we got lost in translation? Oh man, that was one fun trip.”

He may even be so bold as to say, “I loved watching you sleep, it brought me such a sense of calm…”

Of course, he’ll be careful never to mention any arguments you had or unpleasant situations you found yourself in. He doesn’t want you to think about the bad times in your relationship or the reason that you broke up.

And why do you think that is?

Because he wants to get back together, duh!

5) He seems to regret the breakup

He’ll reach out to tell you that he’s sorry for any hurt he caused and any part he played in the breakup.

If you’ve stayed in touch, he’ll use every opportunity he can to mention what a great couple you were and how crazy it is that you broke up.

He just can’t get over you.

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6) He doesn’t approve of the new guys you’re dating

Now that you’re “friends”, you tell each other about the people you’re dating. Well, how very grown up of you!

The only thing is, he doesn’t approve of any of the guys you’re dating.

  • Andrew wasn’t good enough because he made less money than you.
  • Sam wasn’t good enough because he said “supposedly” instead of “supposedly”.
  • And don’t get him started on the new guy!

The truth is that even the most amazing and perfect guy will not be good enough for you.

Wanna know why?

Because he thinks he’s the only one who can make you happy.

7) He keeps posting old pictures of the two of you on social media

Back in the day when social media didn’t exist (can you believe there was such a time?), people used to carry around pictures of their loved ones in their wallets, stick them in scrapbooks, or cover their bedroom walls with them.

It’s a bit different now.

People use the picture of the person they love as their phone or computer background.

And that’s not all! They share pictures of that person on their social media for the whole world to see, including the person in the picture.

So, if your ex is posting pictures of the two of you looking happy together, it’s because he’s trying to reach out.

All in all, it’s pretty clear that he’s not over you and that he’s wishing nothing had ever changed.

8) He still cares about your opinion

It’s been a while since you broke up, you’d think he’d have found someone else whose opinion matters more. But no, you are still his “go to” person when it comes to the important stuff.

Whether he’s thinking about a career change or putting his grandmother into a home for the elderly, your opinion is the one he seeks out.

Even if he’s dating someone else, he’ll call you to ask what you think, not her. Boy, I wouldn’t want to be in her shoes (or his when she finds out!)

9) He tries to rekindle the spark

How do you know your ex is trying to rekindle the spark?

Well, for starters, he’ll be super attentive.

  • He’ll buy you beautiful things and tell you that they “made me think of you”
  • He’ll take you to places that had meaning for you as a couple
  • He’ll make sure that he smells and looks his best when you see him
  • He’ll work hard to make you smile

If you find that the time you spend as friends is starting to feel more and more like a date, that’s because he’s trying to rekindle the flame and get you back.

10) He tries to make you jealous

Ever get a flirty text from your ex only to get another one a few minutes later saying, “Oops, wrong number! Meant to send that to someone else”?

Do you really think he made a mistake? The only person I know who sends texts to the wrong number is my grandmother, and she’s almost 90!

So what’s he playing at?

I’ll tell you what, he’s trying to make you jealous.

Other signs that he’s trying to make you jealous in an effort to win you back are posting pictures with other women on social media and showing up with a hot date to parties he knows you’ll be attending!

11) He hasn’t been able to move on

It’s been months since you broke up, but your ex is still single.

Maybe he’s tried dating a few girls, but that didn’t really amount to very much.

The truth is that your ex hasn’t been able to move on with his life because he’s still in love with you. None of the other girls he meets can compare to you.

So now he’s just hoping that you’ll realize that you’re still in love with him, otherwise, he doesn’t know how he’ll ever move on.

12) He asks your friends about you

Here’s another sign that your Aquarius man is not over you and wants you back: your friends keep reporting that he’s been asking about you!

From asking them what you’re up to or if they’ve heard from you lately, to straight out asking them if you’re dating anyone or if you ever talk about him, he’s obviously keeping tabs on you through your friends.

Maybe he’d like to get in touch but is scared you’ll ignore him. Or maybe you guys have remained friends, but he wants to find out how you feel about him.

In short, the fact that he’s asking your friends about you says a lot.

13) He makes it clear that he still cares about you

Maybe you’re thinking, “So what? That doesn’t mean he’s in love with me or wants to get back together.”

I get it.

Just because you break up with someone doesn’t mean you stop caring about them, and that doesn’t necessarily mean you want to be romantically involved with them.

But, he’s giving you all these mixed signals and you just don’t know what to think anymore.

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14) He remembers important dates

Look, I’m terrible at remembering important dates. I can barely remember a handful of birthdays, let alone the birthdays of all my exes!

Not everyone is as bad with dates as I am, but how many people actually remember to wish their ex a happy birthday? How many people write, “Today would have been our five-year anniversary” to their ex?

The answer is: not that many!

If your ex remembers all the important dates, it’s because you still hold an important place in his heart.

15) He leaves his stuff at your place

This is a very sneaky and clever move.

You see, by leaving behind some books, clothes, or even dishes at your place, he has an excuse to see you again!

Pretty clever, huh?

Think about it: if he wanted this relationship to be over for good, he would have either made pretty sure that he’d taken everything with him when you broke up or, he would have told you to keep his stuff or throw it away.

The fact that he’s texting you and trying to arrange a time when he can come to pick up his things is a pretty good indicator that he’s not over you.

16) He always seems to be wearing the clothes you gave him

Have you noticed that every time you meet your ex, he’s wearing a piece of clothing you gave him? And it’s not like he doesn’t have anything else to wear.

There are two reasons he could be doing this:

  1. The clothes you gave him have sentimental value
  2. He wants you to know he appreciates them

What it comes down to is pretty much the same: he still cares about you.

17) He tries to impress you

When a man is in pursuit of a woman, he works hard to impress her.

From looking his best to being attentive to telling her about how well he’s doing at work, it’s clear that he wants to make a good impression.

If this sounds like your ex, I’d say that he’s not over you. I mean, if he was over you, he wouldn’t really care about what you think and he certainly wouldn’t be trying to win you over.

18) He finds excuses to text you late at night

Does your ex ever text you late at night?

Maybe you find yourself drifting off to sleep when all of a sudden you get a text asking, “Are you asleep?” He’ll tell you that he can’t sleep and that he just wanted to see what you’re up to.

Or maybe he’ll ask you something random like, “What was the name of that restaurant we went to with the amazing Ethiopian food?”

Look at it this way, if your ex is texting you late at night – it means that you’re the last thing he thinks about before he goes to sleep. And what does that tell you?

That he’s still in love with you and wants you back, that’s what.

19) He turns to you when he needs a friend

Even though you guys are no longer together, your Aquarius ex knows that you’ll be there for him when he really needs you.

He still feels a strong connection to you and when things get really tough, you’re the first person he turns to.

The fact that he still comes to you in times of need shows that he’s not over you and that you still hold an important place in his heart.

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20) He invites you to events and activities

This is another way for him to stay in touch and to have an excuse to spend time with you.

Office parties, gallery openings, plays… it’s kind of like nothing’s changed.

He could actually be in denial about the breakup. Maybe he thinks that you guys just had a fight and you’ll get back together soon.

21) He keeps you as his emergency contact

Finally, if your ex still keeps you as his emergency contact, it’s a surefire sign that you’re the most important person in his life. If something happens to him – he wants you to be the first person the doctors call!

Your Aquarius man is clearly still in love with you, and if you feel the same way, you’d better tell him and put him out of his mystery.

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