Are you a Gemini?
Or…is there someone in your life you’re trying to figure out?
I bet that’s why you’re here.
You must be wondering all about this zodiac sign. After all, Gemini is stereotyped as a “two-faced” sign with personalities that contradict each other.
Perhaps a Gemini has driven you crazy!
If you’re tired of reading the same old facts about Gemini and want some REAL answers to your questions, look no further.
Here’s everything you need to know about Gemini to make you an expert on what makes them tick!
What makes Gemini so special?
Indeed, what makes Gemini so special? There must be something about them that’s keeping you on your toes.
Did a Gemini leave you on read, making you wonder what’s up? Or, did you have a great time with one and are not so sure how to ask them out again?
No matter your situation, there are just TWO things you need to know about a Gemini before we proceed.
One, they have a short attention span and get bored easily.
And two, they need lots of activities to keep their active mind stimulated.
This is why it’s hard to figure Geminis out: they can never stay in the same place or with the same person for too long!
Basic Facts about Gemini
Now, back to the basics.
For those well-versed in astrology, it’s a known fact that Geminis are born between May 21 to June 21, after the sign of Taurus (the trusty bull).
Being an Air sign, Geminis are excitable individuals with an insatiable need for variety. You’ll find Geminis at social gatherings talking up a storm or rushing to their next appointment.
After all, you can never have too many options!
With Gemini, you’re endlessly interesting, so long as you’re part of the agenda.
If time’s up? See you next time! And off they go looking for their next adventure.
Geminis are also represented by the sign of the twins, hence the stereotype about Geminis being “two-faced” or untrustworthy people.
This isn’t entirely true!
In fact, it is largely a misunderstanding.
Geminis are complex individuals with a million things running through their minds.
That’s why it can be hard for Geminis to focus on what’s in front of them, including a catch-up session with a friend or a date with their partner.
While you might be thinking, “Who wants to be with a Gemini if they’re so difficult to deal with?”
Remember that these traits can show their best and worst sides in the same person.
Let’s take a look at the best things about knowing a Gemini!
Best traits of a Gemini
1) Needs variety in their life
Geminis are highly creative individuals who love being the center of attention, being a social butterfly who wants to experience as much as they can in life.
What this means is they want variety.
For you, this makes Gemini an exciting friend to have. If you’re bored on the weekend, just drop them a text.
Next thing you know, you’ll be off with Gemini headed to the club or to the shopping mall.
No matter Gemini’s mood, rest assured you’ll always be in for a fun ride!
2) Life of the party
Speaking about being in for a ride with Geminis.
I absolutely mean it!
Geminis understand what it means to live life to the fullest. That’s why it’s so easy for them to be the life of the party, wherever they go.
It’s almost automatic. Greet them at the door and they’ll walk in with the confidence of someone who has it all figured out.
And, to be fair, they do!
Geminis know what makes other people tick, and how to get under their skin.
Most of the time, though, they just want to be friends!
After all, it’s always good to have another party member at that next event.
3) Enjoys meeting new people
If you’ve found yourself in conversation with a Gemini, it’s going to be hard to pull away!
What I mean is that Geminis are so great at making others feel comfortable, especially when you’re just getting to know them.
This is particularly due to their ability to see through you, but in the best way possible!
Geminis are always looking to understand the desires of mankind. The good and the bad.
Yes, the erratic Gemini has a philosophical side that wants to learn all about the secrets of the universe.
That includes you, their new friend.
4) Fun lovers to have
Who knows? Maybe a night out with Gemini leads to something more.
And if you’re lucky, you’ll become the new object of their obsessions!
What could be better?
Geminis are highly attentive lovers who’ll want to learn all about what makes you happy.
Or, perhaps, what makes you annoyed just so they can tease you.
With a Gemini, it’s good to play along with their whims. That’s because you’ll find that they can’t get enough of you.
After all, Geminis love variety! So give them that, and they’ll never let you go.
Geminis are also experimental with sex, meaning, you can let out your wild side with no judgment.
Maybe you’ll discover a new kink together, or secret places to get in on the act.
That said.
You may wonder, so what are the worst traits of Geminis?
It can’t all be good, can it?
Let’s find out.
Worst traits of a Gemini
1) Commitment issues
As we have talked about earlier.
Geminis have problems staying committed to one thing at a time.
After all, these signs enjoy multitasking and cramming their schedule with lots of exciting activities.
At worst, this comes out as commitment issues.
Want a Gemini to cancel their weekend plans to hang out?
Small chance.
Even if it’s been a while since you’ve seen them?
Well, the Gemini says, “Wait ‘til my schedule frees up!”
Or, you may hear things like.
“Are you trying to control me?”
Truth is, Geminis hate being tied down.
Of course, this isn’t a good thing at all in relationships!
2) Indecisive
Another reason Geminis have commitment issues?
They’re indecisive.
Not only do they like having their pick, but they also have trouble picking from the lot itself!
Whether it’s looking through the menu at a restaurant or deciding what movie to watch, Geminis will take their time.
Though it isn’t exactly that the choice they’ve settled on is the one.
In fact, those decisions are made because it is the best one at the time!
3) Manipulative
So.
You know that Geminis like having their way no matter what.
Even if it means potentially hurting someone.
It’s true.
Wherever possible, Gemini prefers to take things lightly.
If you get offended by something they said or did, you’re in for some trouble.
First of all, they’ll find it hard to apologize.
Second of all, they might make you feel like it’s all your fault!
But it isn’t. Trust me.
This is simply the way of the Gemini’s mind.
In short: Geminis can be manipulative.
And whether or not they realize it, the fact is that they’ve hurt someone!
4) Unable to communicate their feelings
Despite their gift of the gab, Geminis can find it hard to communicate their feelings.
That’s exactly why they can come off as manipulative.
It’s so they can avoid these feelings!
This is especially so when it comes to people who are important to them. After all, Geminis are used to switching up their dating partners and friends as if they were clothes in a wardrobe.
But when they fall?
They fall hard.
That’s when the problems start coming in.
You’ll find that they’ve missed your calls, made excuses not to hang out, or – at worst – pretended that you don’t exist!
This goes back again to Gemini’s commitment issues. They just don’t know what it means to stay with one person.
If you’re in love with a Gemini and desperately want to prove it, read below for tips on how to succeed!
Relationships with Gemini: Dating 101
So you’re in love with a Gemini.
That’s why you’ve made it this far in the article.
Now that you’ve gotten a better idea about the personality traits about a Gemini, it’s time to put that knowledge to action.
How to make a Gemini fall for you?
It’s actually quite simple.
Remember what I said about playing along with them?
That’s right. It’s all about getting accustomed to their way of being.
This is the truth about Gemini: you’ll never get bored.
Indeed, the challenge is keeping them interested.
Make a Gemini man fall in love
Here’s how to keep a Gemini man interested.
You’ve got to make them work for it.
What do I mean?
Once you’ve gotten their attention, you’ve got to try not to give them ALL of you.
At least, not yet.
You have to keep some parts of yourself hidden.
That’s right, play the mysterious game!
After all, Geminis love chasing.
This can be confusing: so what if they love the chase and not the relationship?
Hold on for a second.
That’s not the time to worry about that!
Trust me.
Be patient and you’ll start to see your Gemini man taking initiative.
First time he asks you out?
Tell him you’re busy! But you can make an exception for him.
“What about another day of the week?’
Next time he wants to take you to see a movie?
Say you MIGHT be a little late because work’s holding you up!
But of course, make sure to show up on time.
After all, the Gemini man must realize it by this point.
That you’re someone who’s not as easy as he thinks you are!
Best signs to date a Gemini man
What signs go best with the flighty Gemini man?
Can you make a guess?
Geminis are most drawn to high-energy signs like themselves.
That means.
If you’re a Fire Sign, you’re sure to set off some fireworks together!
Think Leo, Sagittarius and Aries.
Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
Now what about Earth signs and Water signs?
It’s not that it can’t work out between you guys.
You may just have a bit of a learning curve in getting accustomed to Gemini’s whims!
Gemini woman relationships
Speaking of whims.
Geminis are always changing their minds about what they want.
Of course, if you’re reading this, you probably already know that.
And we’ve also talked about this earlier.
It’s all about keeping them interested by playing along with their whims.
So.
Let’s say you’re into a Gemini woman right now.
Is it going to be the same as dating a Gemini man?
Here’s a secret.
Both signs do share similar personality traits, but show them off differently.
Gemini women tend to be wittier and enjoy casual conversation.
They’ll talk your heads off and hold your attention.
All the same, they’ll be trying to read you.
Are you the person they can really commit to?
Dating a Gemini woman
Now that you know a Gemini woman is always trying to read you.
And finding more information about a potential mate.
What’s the best way to court her?
It’s very simple, actually.
You’ve just got to be honest.
Yes, play the mysterious game.
But also. Make sure you’re upfront about how you feel.
Break down her cold heart and watch her open up to you!
Best signs to date a Gemini woman
Like the Gemini man, a Gemini woman wants someone who can keep her engaged.
That means, Fire signs win the race!
But hold up.
Since Gemini women want emotional honesty, Water signs may have a chance!
Or maybe, if you’re an Earth sign, you can win her over with your dedication to please her!
Ready to impress your Gemini?
So.
Are you ready for the next step?
Take all that you’ve learnt from me and make good use of it.
Remember.
Be an interesting partner to your Gemini, and they’ll reciprocate it in the best way!
